All he said was that he wanted me to go out and meet other guys because he wasnt the one for me. But his actions always spoke different than his words. I feel like Im a likeable person. When this happens, the girl becomes desperate to know why. I just learnt that it is not Im not good enough or He doesnt like me or We are not at good for each other or Its wrong for me to fall for someone who is beyond reach, its just that He is not emotionally available for the moment. Well June 18, 2018, 8:19 am. I said just: I would love to:) But we would cuddle and kiss. Things were flowing nicely until he chose to vanish from the picture. I think this guy has a lot of issues he needs to deal with and that he doesnt even seem to be aware of. As painful as that realization is, it may give you closure to realize his behavior is not your fault and not because of something you did. He has also built a highly successful coaching business, written a best-selling book, shared the stage with some of the industrys biggest names like Jack Canfield, Les Brown, Bob Proctor, and Brendon Burchard, and been featured on The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, and more. On monday of the next week he texted me saying he wanted to see me which I answered that I did so. omg thanks for replying :) Ugh its really sad to think that he just wants sex because in all this years he never tried anything like that (or at least I didnt felt it that way..i dont know). I had no idea what to think. I literally stumbled across this post looking something else up lol. Ive had so many clients ask me what exactly to say when a vanisher comes back and starts texting again, and maybe youve wondered the same thing to yourself. Then I assumed its over, but still, I needed a closure. This was just wasnt that into you. Then the next day was the big day to meet his friends and he was acting so weird the whole entire time. You have to remember, once the oxytocin kicks in, its a whole different world for us. Looking backwards or maybe on your current experiences what would you say would be the best for a girl who cares about a guy like you to do? But theres the idea that he thinks I will wait. Later that day I get the bright idea to face time him on my lunchbreak and he doesnt answer.So silly me I text him to tell him I just called, this asshole reads the text and never replies. Anyway, because of that, whenever I got close to a woman my terrible self esteem would sabotage me and id play games. He initiated the texting and phone calls. He invited me to meet him up at the gym, he was very flirty, very touchy, in between sets he would come talk to me. It was Friday and we had such a good time and he didnt say he wanted to hang out. We met on Tinder texted for a little bit and then met up. I forced a confrontation. We texted a little at the start. 14. Take a gap of 48-72 hours to make further communication try. Nothing. They pull you along, cause they can sense you easily are easy to manipulate. He says he will text me. Im maybe a 7.5 or an 8. Moving forward - When He Disappears Let Him Go. It has been 10 days I havent heard from him. She probably doesnt see how this is such a turn off factor to you. All men are bastards who Always cheat and abandon. If hes gone, he wasnt worth your time anyway. And also he went to the work cause he didnt get new job and its ok but they said a new girl iss his partner! Its way too obvious that hes ghosting you on purpose and you want to get answers. I too am determined not to lose my dignity and be the first to contact, I want him to miss me and want me like he once did, Im not going to beg, but the thought of him never reaching out again, fills me with dread, and I need to know if this is just a break, as he said it was, or if it is completely broken. But he thinks Im a cool girl and wants to be friends. Dont let people tell you that you are perfect and dont need to change. If there is no chemistry, or timing is not right, just tell her. After we were everything to each other, I too now feel like he has blocked me or changed his profile, he has just disappeared. Its just that over the phone and countless hours that we had talked for and things that we shared, I had developed that kinda relationship with him where I felt So everything changed for me also This is the road Ive usually taken with him but I dont want to rush things and feel I should continue talking to him a bit longer before trying to see if hes interested in starting something again. Does he ask you what you want or need in any life area? So I finally had to just come out and ask what the deal was. Wrong. Its been a week and I keep replaying the whole date. He says he loves me. One day he told me that he likes me, I kinda expected it not because I want him to say it but I have this weird gut feeling that he indeed likes me more than a friend. I sent him another message a few weeks later saying I was going to stop waiting for an explanation but I hope his move back went well and take care etc. As in, send a picturelol I have nice feet and it wasnt a big deal. [repeat], Dont want you to be sad girl But he has vanished, no texts and no calls this week. And we didnt talk at all for the 6th month until the last week where I contacted him. Hell realize that he lost a girl who actually wanted to be his, one who would have fought for him and defended him in front of everyone. I met this guy at his job. And it wouldnt feel like a big deal at all that he took off for a bit. He told me to stop. I was just hoping for a short response, even if he says that he loses interest in me itll hurt but atleast I dont have to wait for him anymore. Awww Sweetie, men do stuff like that when they are getting too closeyour guy probably has baggage that he needs to deal with and perhaps he thought that he could not handle an LDRLet him go..I know the feeling..but usually they do reach out within one to two months, they miss the feeling of being wanted and loved and they miss you but usually for the wrong reasonsI would say let him go and try (and this is going to be very hard) to keep your options openstart dating..indulge yourselfYou are strong enough and smart enough not to have chased himMost women try to reach out in desperation, I have done it in my lowest and darkest times and made a complete fool of myself..Oh yeah, I cringe at the stupid things I have doneIve only just learnt to relax and step back and realize that if a guy truly likes you, you dont have to chase him, he will like pursuing you, in fact he will love it, he will want to have you all to himself and snatch you before anyone else takes you off the market..All you have to do is respond to him positively. One minute, all fun and loving . He got sick one day and stopped contacting me for no reason. . I wasnt that into him in the beginning but he was really chasing and really I will say earned my attention. Trust me when a man acts so super like that and gives and gives.. it can be overwhelming and stressing for a woman. My guy had a lot of issues going on, but I dont think that excuses him at all. So it seemed as if he didnt want me to leave. I am so sorry;(. From that text, he hasnt said anything back and its been about a week. Once the first vanishing occurs, others are sure to follow. To this day I still dont know what happened, but although he chose to dispose of what we had, I am just greatful that I a man not with a guy that doesnt value me, because life is too short to be wasted on irrelevant people. Always. We then started seeing each other and hit it off from the get go!! White middle class males have been hammered upon ever since people like Gloria Steinem came onto the scene and pretty much emasculated all males. Its really that simple. I too was charmed, pursued and wooed relentlessly. I refuse to text him. When a Gemini man disappears, it can be tempting to bombard him with calls and texts to try to force him to respond to . I meet guys who seem attracted and things seem to go fast like we click. So Im supposed to be all like, NO you need to text me and call me, your behavior is unacceptable and I dont care if your mom is dying LOL, no way! Dude, stop chasing this guy. And telling people not to take it personally is laughable. Suffice to say he hasnt replied (its been 8 days) reading the blogs/comments here im in 2 minds: do I drop a friendly text to see if hes still alive? I met that guy, didnt ask him anything and he came to my life. So yo completely do a Houdini AND change number was extremely alarming and has left me totally feeling like Ive been punched. Incidentally, I was in another long term on and off relationship with someone else in the past and I would hate to go back there, therefore avoid it like a plague. Im 23, have a good job, my own flat. He dissAppeared from whatssap and hangouts and when I came from work to ask about when we would buy the tickets to my country to meet there again, he not longer answered me anymore. STEP #1 FOR WHEN A VANISHER COMES BACK: Get yourself in the right mindset before you respond. The next day he texted asking If I was being serious about meeting again( we were drunk during the whole party) I answered Yeah, why not so he asked me during the week where and when wed meet. Move on because you deserve that! I ageed . Because I dont think I should, I think you shouldnt talk to him. I dont understand what happened. I texted that I sensed something was up. Are yall friends? Love and attention from a land far, far away is a typical scam artist angle. Its been amazing getting to know you but this is where I let you go. From listening to/reading about the experiences of guys who have ghosted, I agree with Jools in that the reasons for disappearing are not always strictly limited to them losing interest. Youre seeing a guy for a little while, it could be weeks or maybe months. I think I was worried about how awkward things would be. I havent done anything to him I dont understand how he could just stop talking to me. . Boy bye! I was very surpriced and a bit confused. I do not want to play games anymore and only put in as much effort as him and wait until he contacts me but I feel as if this is the only way. As seen above, it has nothing to do with you when a guy does that, so girls! 6months ago we started officially dating. Something came up.". Him just discarding me like this is shameful and leaves me feeling very, very hurt. I recently was seeing a men that disappeared and reappeared. Really we should stay true to our real feelings, nature, impulses.. in exploring other people. From what you have related, it was certainly nothing you did and the vanishing just came out of the blue. Im sorry this happened to you. He said on to give him about a week to get his stuff together and that he will call me and let me whats going on I told him. I met this guy online one month ago we started chatting he was smart and funny. If a girl asked me for cash on a second or third date, Id say no thanks and lose her number. But decided to go ahead as I had a good feeling about him and he made me laugh. Im angry and sad and feel so alone. but then i found other pic after.. grrrrr But no single, straight man in my age bracket (30-40) but not any older or younger ones are sane or man enough to be a man and not a pussy running away crying because he cant handle emotions. Thats total bullshit!! Whats left? FML. Ive had so much fun with him the last 3 weeks, crazy spontaneous fun and so this guy has really got under my skin. He was awesome. if nothing else, something that will NEVER happenI think I need to take a stand and tell him to either stop flirting with me and assuming that I am interested in being his fall back girl or stop contacting him altogether..I dont mind if he wants a platonic friendship, but dont disrespect me by putting me somewhere in between a friend and a girlfriend. We spoke later that evening and again, he seemed fine and we made a date for the following Saturday. His excuses for always not calling me, hes always working. It would have been nice to have learned he was done from him, and not radio silence. This guy welcomed me into his home and made me feel like part of his family, he made plans for us to do things together and treated me with respect, I felt like his friend. If you let go of your past, then it will bring you peace and save you a lot of energy for a bright future. I signed up for POF not even 3 weeks ago. I mean even if he doesnt want to text he could message me online and say hi. I agree with Jujubean, at least he told you now rather than later. This weirded me out but i like this girl, shes exotic, very successful, speaks fluent French and just all around cool, shes also funny! And stay strong!!! I know he is going through a lot of issues right now but just dont know what to think of this. I had a really hard time reading your storyI only understood half of it. Now Im waiting to see if Im actually pregnant. Intimacy is THE GLUE in a relationship. Hes radio silent for weeks, and then now he all of a sudden texts you saying whats up or asking how youve been. Therefore time-wasters do not deserve our time! I never liked someone so deeply and strongly. Hes Just Not That Into Me! After a few months of dating I introduced him to my family and he came to my cousin so wedding. This will eat away at your self-esteem and will repel any new potential suitors that might come along. Now hes doing the disappearing act on me & he has so many of my DVDs, how do I ask for them back? Maybe he drank a strange magic potion. ), and not heard from him, and leave it at that. Long story short he was not over her cuz itd been only about a month since they split. When he disappears from your life without a sign, you can easily text him with what you expect from him. i will never reach out to him again & i hope he never reaches out to me again either. Dont text them. He may have told you differently; who knows, maybe he even thought he would continue the relationship once vacation was over. I decide to ask if we can talk later on the phone cuz I want to know where hes at and if we should just call it quits. Dont reach out to him.under any circumstances! 25 text examples you can steal! There might have been a misalignment of interests, and he chose to disappear since he knows that you wont meet those expectations. Communication is EVERYWHERE these days, and that has actually made dating much more difficult- not easier. This EXACT thing just happened to me. Answer: Since you can't take more from someone than they want to give you without making them your enemy, let him text you if and when he has time. They live in the same town. But I did find someone I cared about, still care about. Him (10 minutes of silence while he is online): lol What? You dont know if they are careless in their dating. On the third month, I just felt I needed to know what he was up to. I asked him if he wanted to get out of the relation and he just said no! I agree. Im pretty confident he will be back and then you can tell him youre not into games.see ya. We talked for a little bit, then I sent a mundane text about what I had for lunch, then I heard nothing from him. At the stage youre in, its common for the other person to just end communication. It doesnt matter, it means the same thing: hes not into you and doesnt see this relationship going anywhere. 2. vanished!! one of her favorite topics is preventative medicine, along with medical horror stories about friends and even offers me some advice on vitamins etc. I wouldnt say we were boyfriend or girlfriend but he told his mother about me and his best friend and told his stepdad that he was happy. Take a hard look at your life and try to better yourself. For me, it was what I wanted. Havent tried contacting him since. So, I left him along for a few days. Both said we loved each other and things were good. The 2 months gap was also because I didn't text him first. ???? Keeping in mind that a reply that you might think is cute and cheeky, is usually perceived as more passive aggressive. Not only will this make you look clingy and accusatory of his actions, but also create a disbalance of power in his favor and assign you the role of the chaser. 2. How delusional can u be? I was raised by a single mom for most of my childhood BTW. Frankly, I think my actions were rather compassionate. Hotter and prettier and with a better body. From text msgs to phone calls that last hours and hours. I thought that was very rude and of course it hurts. He told me hes getting a big surgery next week on his hips and would have to work OT this coming week to make up the time, so he wanted to see me the following Monday (which is a holiday). This time has been hell for me and I miss him every day. The Pyramid - and by extension, Love U - takes you from the basics of . But I cant handle it again. He's just not that into you. We had been hanging out for about two weeks, and while he had been very good to me (i.e constant contact, paid for dates, respectful) I didnt feel ready to sleep with him. Well here is what I wish he had said: I like to think that this is what he had wanted to say: Dont wanna see your tears And what I could do is to choose to wait for him to recover or to move on to find another man. Next day I texted him Why???? Let him know what you want from him. but then he started talking about spending weekend in an island. I just want to disappear out of his life to. Of weeks. Not only did henot have decency to ccancelled, this man dropped off the face of the Earth AND made it so that I couldnt contact him, all without A SINGLE WORD. I havent seen this guy in a year and he insisted we remain in contact. I lay out that I dont think he can handle my past baggage and insecurities. People deal with stress differently! So after several months I texted him and we agreed to see each and catch up. And then youll find another new guy you can try and spin something great out of. I asked him his schedule for the week and when we could get together (knowing I had the intention of asking him in person what was going on)and he just ignored the question and talked about his work. He broke up with me the weekend before one nursing class ended. I guess I got him when I pretend that I dont like him. Maybe he blocks me, but for what?! Everything was fine, I really felt that he liked me and that he wanted to pursue me. then we talk on whatsapp till he asked me to visit him . when he did call, asked him what was going on? What you are experiencing is totally what happen to me now. It will make him worry about what could cause your plans to be interrupted. It was amazing. That would be honest without being hurtful, Broken hearted The list is exhausting. She is not a bad person but sadly she is not normal due to her borderline personality disorder. What should i do? Three years is a long time to just break up over a text. My guy at least responds to my texts, but we havent seen each other in three weeks and he hasnt made first contact with me since the 17th. Communicate With Confidence. So, instead of enjoying your life, youre wondering what you should text him to let him know that his behavior isnt right. It is really that simple. I knew he had a problem with depression as he had been thru an episode a few months back and came out the other side ok. And do this in a genuine but direct manner. So I figure he met someone else he liked better, got back with his exwhatever. I asked him if he still wanted to do this and he got mad about me asking that, said I was asking stupid questions that he would answer later. This is something that happened before as well. Now, if he got sick, of course I would be by his side, we promised we would never leave each other, and we had so many plans as a new family. Like where is this going conversation? I did get up to vomit in the bathroom and he held my hair back! There was a hotel opposite the parking station and he suggested we spend the night together. Insecure. deep in my heart I like him a lot, but as what sabrina says, dont take it personally, I dont follow what I feel, but mostly follow my brain. Honestly I am hurt, I cant stop crying, I cant eat, sleep, and have turned off my socialmedia accounts. We made it work. He agrees very nonchalant. He was awesome! If a day later, I hadn texted him back, I get a sorry I texted you by mistake I meant that for my friend R, not you. Should I try to reach out when Im I left for vacation the following weekend, so three weeks after the first date, we had our second. Theyre not the right guy for you, thats all. I told him tied up right now. His friends referring to me as his girlfriend or girl and genuinely looking happy he had someone for a change. Just wondered what made u see that made u say that I seem like a nice girl ( personally in your opinion) I meant to ask this when we first started texting ? And for a while. If a guy vanished on you, this says everything about him, not you. He professed his love to me daily. He also changed his number and never got to me. Totally not looking for anyone he walked up to me and I thought hey hes cute lets give it a go. We were in touch a bit after that but it was me initiating and I invited me to hang, he said he was out of town, then I reached out again one more time and he, for the first time ever, did not respond to me at all. Done and done. He isnt even the guy whose picture or profile you read. Ive done this myself when at that introduction stage. Day Three: You know that if you contact him again you will appear desperate, so you wait another day before attempting to contact him again. I think if more people realized that LOVE absolutely-must-come-first before ANY ideas about marriage or the rest of your life, people would be a lot happier. I understand you too and I know how it sucks. Its been 2 weeks now. Come up for air, take a couple of deep breaths, give him a minute to think about what you just said if hes a slow responder dont jump around the place running circles around him. The texting from morning to night every day, and texting about mundane things certainly indicates that. The material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except as expressly permitted in writing by A New Mode, Inc. Theres something wrong with these guys. Get back on Tinder and keep dating til you find someone. Theyre cowards. My friends went back to him and he gave them his number to give me.. I know that we had a great time hanging out but I also know how tricky it can be for guys when they realize theyre catching feelings or when they want different things. (Yet my profile was crystal clear that was why I was there online). Not cuddling not a kiss and barely even a decent goodbye hug let alone sex. Was because I am a single mother and he is a single father, too? it may not be you it may be your views, what you talk about and maybe your politics. If I stop by he gives me the cold shoulder. I knew he really wanted to see me. Him:, Complete whatsapp silence for almost 15 minutes, no explanation, no denialjust silenceThen I (for some retarded reason) started feeling bad for him like I had exposed him or somethingand changed the topic to something else to which he responded normallyIt was a little pathetic actuallyIf I didnt like him as much as I do I would think it was hilarious, I think its only a matter of time though, before he disappears completely..I would not be surprised if this was the last time we spoke, since he knows Im on to him now and he does not have to pretend anymore..I feel like a lamb to the slaughter..I hope I can muster up the strength to let him go completely when that happens and not go all psycho on him and blow up his phone (I have refrained from doing it so far but I dont know about the future, I feel crazy enough to do it)God help me..Men are such jerks :(. Then poof hes gone. The older they are the more apathetic they are. Consider their silence the closure you need. So we get chatting again, he wants to call meHe called and told me the reason he missed the first date is his ex came to his home (he has his 2 kids) and found him on POF and freaked out. My rational head knows this. He doesn't really want a real relationship. Am I being naive? He hates being lied too and cant even be frank with me or others. When I first found out that he was ignoring me I texted him a bunch of stuff and basically called him an asshole. I am entering this comment under an alias just to be careful and avoid the guy i am writing this about from seeing it. Why would you waste your time on someone who cant give you a reason as to why hes leaving? Though sometimes it hurts when I think about the good times we spent. I keep thinking about what happened. This has literally been a nightmare. Expose him and let him realize that you know whats going on. and no news nothing just disappeared. He wont call or text. Yes the whole thing felt real. I called him like 3 or 4 times everyday for about 5 days, he didnt answer. I was never mean to him or clingy, only kind and understanding and non judgemental, so it really hurt, especially since it was the first time I let my guard down after having it up for so long. I dont care about the collateral damage or that she may feel it was mean. Hey, Matt. If women went for men in their league this wont happen. With online dating, I advocate meeting someone pretty soon somewhere in public after the initial contact. The man I was dating? Im sorry youre hurting, but realise that hes just not that into you to take care of youre emotions and perspective. And the next day after that he texted me, he didnt say that it was over, but instead he said that I deserved someone better. so there is no frikin way that i am going to text him after reading about your experiences. I finally had to block him when he called me twice between 5 am and 6 am. But he suddenly stopped texting during a day and a half, then on the same friday he invited me at his home and watch a movie though It was late I accepted and he picked me up. I am starting to think he is getting in his feelings and needs some time to push them back. And yes, it would have been more courteous for him to just say, Hey, I had just broken up with my girlfriend when you and I met and we decided to give it another go. But that COULD be an awkward, dramatic conversation. I fell in love and planned a trip back there this summer. The next day we met up he hasnt been in a relationship with a girl who doesnt smoke weed or drink or goes clubbing. Do you care about a stranger? Since he works at the store I get my groceries from I used a different picture.. This is why we need to be as clear minded and clear vision as possible and make an effort to not get entangled in hopeless love affairs. It's not over yet. Then it's important to respond to his text in a manner that's calm and positive, but highly assertive. I told him I also wanted to be with him but I didn feel ready in that moment. But anyway we eventually considered our relationship as a bf gf type of relationship and we were exited to see each other. I am a doctor, earn my own money, I am funny, smart, in good shape. If a man loves you, he would never do these things to you. The world is full of con artists and losers, dont give them cash. Look her in the eyes and tell her its her fault. I promise. He has literally dropped off the face of the earth. Update: before he left he send message that he was sorry that we didnt had chance to spend more time before his vacation. I almost feel like he wanted to do this to me for some sick reason. Good advice! he would always say stuff like yeah we should go do something for real but after 4 months we still did not do anything till I aventually orgenised something . 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